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Writing a letter to your childhood self can be a transformative experience. It's an exercise in reflection, self-compassion, and personal growth. This guide will help you pen down your thoughts, feelings, and advice to your younger self.

Ideal conditions


Best time of the day
Evening

Suggested age
18 and above

Best weather conditions
Calm, clear weather

Budget
Between 0 and 0 euro

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Last editted on: 09-09-2024 21:33

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Find a Quiet Place

Start by finding a peaceful spot where you won't be disturbed. This could be a cozy corner in your home, a quiet cafe, or even a park bench. The key is to choose a place where you feel comfortable and able to focus on your thoughts.

Gather Your Materials

  • Pen and Paper: There's something grounding about writing by hand, but a computer works if that's more comfortable.
  • Photograph: If you have one, find a picture of your younger self to help you connect with your past.
  • Candles or Incense: Optional, but their scents can help create a nostalgic atmosphere.

Reflect on Your Childhood

Before you start writing, take a few minutes to reflect on your childhood memories. Consider the happiest moments, the challenges, and any pivotal events that shaped who you are today. Don't shy away from any feelings—even the difficult ones can lead to healing.

Address Your Younger Self

Begin your letter by addressing your younger self. Express compassion and understanding. You might write, 'Dear [Your Name], I remember when you...' This can set a personal and meaningful tone.

Share Wisdom and Encouragement

Think about the advice or encouragement you wish you had received as a child. What would have helped you then? Write these down, keeping in mind the knowledge and experience you have now.

Close with Kindness and Love

End your letter on a positive note. Offer words of kindness and love to your younger self, as you would to a dear friend. Sign off with something reassuring, like 'You are loved' or 'You will grow through everything.'

Reflect on the Experience

After writing, take some time to reflect on the experience. How do you feel? What did you learn about yourself? Consider jotting down these thoughts to remember your journey.

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